Don’t mistake someone who didn’t know how to love you with love itself. Don’t be afraid to love again
Whenever am told to write, just the thought of it freaks me out. As a writer, you just never know if your piece of literature will be able to capture the readers’ attention without them yawning or being forced to resort to Netflix. I believe that writing from the heart helps me out. Of course no one can be able to please everyone, but hey, we can’t live a timely life trying to make everyone happy. Which brings me to my topic.
Dear Reader, have you ever fallen in love? By love, I don’t mean have you ever had list for someone, or a two-day crush, I usually get crushes on people like all the time. By love, I mean that unexplainable feeling that makes you feel you are not whole until someone is with you, that makes you always remember their expressions, their voice, their favorites, that gets you jealous whenever you see the one you love smile at someone else. I know right! Love can be too weird. It can’t be explained on a sheet of paper.
Many say that love is just an illusion that the brain sets up in order to fill the urge for companionship, I guessing a way, they are right. Am not an expert or specialist in love, but at least from the few times I have been in love, I have learnt the following;
Being in love is supposed to make you feel safe and secure. Everybody longs for acceptance, acknowledgement and security. The one you love must possess the ability to realize your perfections and imperfections, and still take you in the way you are, make you feel loved and safe.
Lies in a relationship are sometimes unavoidable. To be honest, it hurts when you watch the one you love go through pain. Sometimes one lies just because they can’t stand the thought of their partner getting hurt by the truth, or because the truth may change the way things are. But whatever it is, telling your partner the truth makes them feel more intimate with you. Always opt for the truth.
Loyalty is an issue every human handles differently, depending on a number of factors. Though I have to confess, being loyal is sometimes hard, the places we live in are packed up with temptations, I learnt that if someone truly loves you, no matter the number of times they mess up, they will always come back to you. Its like destiny pins them in your life and it’s the way it’s meant to be.
These are few of the things I have learnt from love, am yet to love other people, because life is full of lessons, love is a beautiful thing. Don’t run away from it, embrace it, and all will be okay.
~Just my random thought, Love you all~